A couple of weeks ago, I went over to my Facebook friends,
and I downsized the amount of friends that were on my page.
I took off probably 175 or so, and
really want to take off more!
But I don't want to appear too evil, you know:)
It wasn't that I had anything against any of them.
But truly, so many of them (not all) acted like they were still
in high school and it was really sad.
I just don't need that in my life.
I check in every couple of days but
I can live without it.
So I purged them from my Facebook.
It was great:)
I must not have been the only one feeling this way,
my SIL did it too and some of my other friends
said they keep their list to a minimum.
So then.....
I went over my blog with a fine-toothed comb.
First, I went through all the blogs I follow.
I deleted over half of them.
It wasn't that I had anything against them.
Most of them were nice blogs.
A few were just not all that and a bag of po-ta-to chips!
Some of them I just tired of.
So I purged again!
But I did it mostly because I was missing
the ones I really do enjoy.
The bloggy girls I have come to know and love!
My friends that live in my computer!
They were slipping through my reader and
going into the wild blue yonder of blogland,
never to be viewed by my eyes or
LOL'd at in a comment.
(On a side note, I love my reader - Love it!!
Thanks
Helene for turning me onto it.)
I gotta say....it was refreshing!!
I felt free!!!
I did lose a couple of followers, and
I figured I would.
That's to be expected.
Another thing about this week was that I did not
participate in Friday Follow.
While I did find some really great blogs during the weeks
I did link up, it just wasn't worth it for me.
Just not what I'm about.
When someone posts a comment,
and it's obvious they didn't read a single thing in your post,
just "Following you, come follow my blog too!" or
"Great post! Come over to my blog!" or
the equivalent to that,
it's so frustrating.
You guys know what I'm talking about.
I cleaned up my blogroll
and took some of the links off my enjoy list.
I moved them to my reader and
made it just for recipe blogs now.
I'm thinking about taking the little follow box off, but
I have to let that mull around in my head for a bit.
I blog because I'm lousy at keeping a paper journal and
this is my way of keeping a journal.
It's for me, my husband, my kids, and
the rest of my family.
If you get a kick from reading it,
that makes me happy too.
All in all, I guess I what it boils down to is
this is my blog.
I can write about whatever I want.
I can put what I want on it
and
I can take it off.
I don't have ads.
(I don't like the commercial feel of it)
I don't do buttons.
(I'm too OCD and don't like the clutter)
I don't even do awards.
(Basically I don't like being told to do something)
Big flippin' deal!
If you do, it's your blog, go for it!!
Don't tell me what to do with my blog and
I won't tell you what to do with yours!
Except for get rid of word verification,
it's stupid it doesn't make a difference (just do moderating),
everyone hates it and
you'll get more comments.
Also, link an email up for your blog already!!
The no-reply blogger thing is killing me!!
If you don't have a clue what I'm talking about just ask.
I know you've read other blog posts about it.
Please.
Pretty please with sugar on top!
And a cherry!
Go to yahoo or gmail,
get a free email and put it in your blog profile.
Do it now! I'll wait.
Did you do it?
Okay.
Now, other than that, I won't tell you what
to do with your blog ;)
Even then, it's done with love.
Thanks Google for the pics!!